Thank you so much for making me feel really welcome here. I feel like im actually part of a huge family with people watching your back. I appreciate it.
I am getting settled in my new town now and i can see a lot of drama ahead especially with the ex, lets call him Jason. Since he knew i was coming, he asked me to help him get some stuff which he paid for so definitely i had to see him. He picked me up from my friend's house (the only girlfriend i have here) so i could give him the stuff and offered to drop me at my aunt's place which im staying temporarily. We started talking and all and i must admit, im so not over him. Anyway, mid way, his phone rings while i was trying to text with it and it was his ex, the girl he dated before me. Let me rewind briefly. I have major issues with the girl cuz they are too close for comfort. I believe ur ex with someone for a reason so how can u be very good friends without feelings. I feel he's always trying to rub it in my face. When we were dating, we had alot of arguments cuz of the girl. Can u guys believe that when we broke up, the only person he went to confide in was this same ex. So many instances where i have felt he put her before me. I cant even start ranting about it. Last week, i was talking to him on the phone and the conversation
went like this,
jason: guess who is also writing the exam (he's writing this prof. exam in his field)
me: who?
jason: ur best friend. just guess.
I take a couple of guesses and i was wrong
me: r u going to tell me or what? oh wait, ur ''ex''
jason: yea, so we r going to be studying together....
People, what the f was that about? he knows that this babe's issue is a sensitive one to me, yet he's telling me these things. whats my business? I was so irritated but didnt say anything.
Now, yesterday, the babe called him twice. Is he trying to get back with her? Am i wrong to be sensitive over it? If he still likes her, im cool with that but he should not flirt with me and tell me i look so good, he cares about me and the yarns he was on about yesterday.
Im stupid, and i did something really stupid. I agreed to come spend the weekend with him. I know it was foolish of me and what do you guys think of the sex with an ex thing. i dont know why i agreed? i think cuz i still like him but there's just so much drama and i just want to get him out of my life as soon as possible so i can be a new being in this new place. I am in a dilemma i put myself. Please Help!!!!!!!!
6 comments:
Kai, stalking should be given awards mehn...
It seemz like ur ex is rily close to dis babe and I can def understand how uncomfortable it makez or made u feel.
Spending the weekend with him cud rily be harmful, esp since ure tryin to get over him.
On the other hand.. if u think u can handle it, maybe it wud be gud.. i'm not into the sex with an ex thing.. esp a rily recent one.
But think about it.. i think if u can handle the weekend without any surprises, it meanz ure probabaly rily ready to just stay friends with him..
Keep postin!
Well first of all, the thing to look at, as you rightly mentioned is that you are an 'ex' for a reason. The same applies to you too. You need to check wht was it that caused your break up in the first place. Have you resolved it, or has it just gone under the bridge.
The sex with the ex thing is a bit dodgy too...seeing as you were both together, there is no way spending the weekend with him will not lead to something. So you might just wanna be careful. Clarify some things you know and if it so happens that you two should get back together, sort out this 'ex' business mehn...its a load of bull crap in my own opinion.
I really dunno how to find dat post but please go and look for "sha" blogger and read her post on been friends with the "ex",
i dont wanna be a prophecy of doom but...........Sex wit a recent EX............Nah,i dont tink u are on the right path!!and d guy is even been "honest" about his mess ups,hooking up with the both of u around dsame period and not hiding it from u.....................*phew*
drama!!!!
Hey gurl, goodluck with the moving to a new town thing cuz i really moved to a town where i know no one..
I'm not a fan of being friends with the ex thing..it tends to get too complicated..nothing wrong with being cordial but being friends is usually a no go area.
Im not sure if you spending the weekend with him is such a god idea because you might end up doing something you will regret...Goodluck in your decisions and remain strong
it's called booty call!
a lose lose situation if u ask me.
welcome to blogville!
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